There has been an article going around on the social network recently, that speaks about how bad women look with short hair and how their hair are supposed to be long because that’s what actually make them look pretty. Do a little more research and you will dig up a lot more. Their are many men out there, who hate short hair on women with such a vengeance that you will wonder if they hold any personal grudge against it. But no, chances are they don’t. Then why such hatred? Because in their eyes, women don’t look as pretty.
Now let’s understand something about us humans. We get used to things. It can be a home. A bed. A route to get from point A to point B. Anything. Similarly, we get used to looks too. When a guy who hasn’t shaved for a year suddenly shaves, he’s looked upon strangely. Not in a negative way or anything, just strangely. Because he looks much different and people around him aren’t used to seeing him in such a way. Now girls have been wearing long hair for years. Decades. Centuries. And all of a sudden, in the last few years, they aren’t afraid to cut it anymore. Because honestly, over a period of time, the gender on the whole, is becoming more confident. So yes, you’re probably not used to seeing girls / women with short hair. Give it some time.
And if you still argue that long is how women should wear their hair, let’s take a step back to actually go all the way back. Men didn’t have magical hair that would cut themselves short. They too, used to keep their hair long. But over time, the concept of short hair came about among the men. For whatever reason, the women didn’t take to it at that point in time. But they are taking it up now. And this whole concept of being feminine is absolute bullshit. Both men and women had long hair initially. And over the years, we just got used to seeing women with long hair. Does not mean women need to have long hair to be feminine.
And finally, long hair requires patience, money and maintenance. It’s not easy. Shampoos, conditioners, serums, etc. Not all women have perfect hair. They get wavy, oily, tangled, frizzy, limp and what not. All this requires girls to actually sit down everyday, and spend time and effort making their hair manageable. And still, just taming the hair does not mean it becomes manageable. Come a gush of a wind and they’re all over the place. They keep coming onto the face. In the eyes. You need to constantly tie them up to do work. And not to mention the heat in the summers. Managing long hair, is just not easy.
So bottom line, get over it guys. Because a lot of girls have.